REVIEW | MARY J. BLIGE’S ‘MY LIFE’ COMES TO LIFE

The queen of hip hop soul opened up recently about the leg­acy of argu­ably the most illus­tri­ous pro­ject of her illus­tri­ous career. A career that is filled with top ten hits, mil­lions of records sold, nine Grammys, and an Oscar nom­in­a­tion while giv­ing voice to so many who been through the worst life has to offer. The recent Hulu doc­u­ment­ary My Life sheds light on what lead to the cre­ation of the album of the same title that made Mary J. Blige immortal.

It was her sopho­more fol­low up to What’s the 411?, which put her on the map after she signed with the late Andre Har­rell and Uptown Records. Each track on My Life opened up a win­dow into Mary’s deep pain and anguish and it was also an homage to the R&B/Soul sounds that she grew up with in a music lov­ing fam­ily liv­ing in the Schlobo­hm Hous­ing Pro­jects in Yonkers, New York.

Paired with her mentor/producer Sean “Puffy” Combs and pro­du­cer Chucky Thompson, Mary was able to chan­nel her inner most struggles into lyr­ics that struck a chord.

The title track “My Life” which samples Roy Ayers, “Every­body Loves the Sun­shine” spoke to her need to be under­stood in the con­text of her des­pair. Her cov­er of Ross Royce’s “I’m Going Down” said it all about her need for uncon­di­tion­al love.

“Be Happy” attrib­uted to her desire to find the hap­pi­ness that she was denied.

In the midst of her ground­break­ing work, the doc­u­ment­ary revealed that it was dur­ing this time that she was bat­tling with clin­ic­al depres­sion, drugs/alcohol, and was in an abus­ive rela­tion­ship with K‑Ci Hailey of Jodeci, who were also signed to Uptown.

“She was talk­ing about how isol­ated she was” said music journ­al­ist Craig Sey­mour who inter­viewed Mary numer­ous times for pub­lic­a­tions such as Vibe Magazine.

“She talked about how the pen was her voice.”

It was with My Life that Mary cemen­ted her status as the Bil­lie Hol­i­day, Bessie Smith, Aretha Frank­lin, and Tina Turn­er of her time, a con­sequen­tial black feminist/womanist per­former who didn’t relent or held back from speak­ing truth to power. It also inspired and chal­lenged oth­er artists to dig a little deep­er for their second album and if you look at the mid to late 90’s in the world of R&B you will see TLC’s Crazy­Sexy­Cool, Brandy’s Nev­er Say Nev­er, and Monica’s Angel of Mine fol­low­ing that template.

After talk­ing with Craig and learn­ing about his exper­i­ences inter­view­ing Mary, he had some of his own cri­tiques of the documentary.

“It was his­tor­ic­al” he said.

“We didn’t get the his­tory of Uptown and why Uptown star­ted fus­ing black youth cul­ture and you didn’t get any sense of how ground­break­ing it was at the time.”

With that said, he shared with me that My Life was going back to the roots of what black music has always rep­res­en­ted and how that leg­acy was applic­able to black life in the early and mid-1990’s.

“Black art was to remind us of our human­ity and Mary is in a long line of artists that do that” he said.

“This is the music of a gen­er­a­tion lost to crack cocaine and mass incarceration.”

If you want to see that impact that Mary’s music has on Black Amer­ica watch the doc­u­ment­ary and then look up a clip pos­ted on Twit­ter not too long ago of a vigil for Breonna Taylor in which the crowd blasts and sings along to “Everything” of the Share My World album which happened be Breonna’s favor­ite song. In the end, Mary J. Blige shared her world and the world recip­roc­ated with love, admin­is­tra­tion, and affec­tion for her and all that she con­tin­ues to represent.

Her music did more than just made us dance and bop our heads, it made us open our hearts and it also saved lives.

The queen has spoken.

 

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I am a viol­ence pre­ven­tion edu­cat­or, act­iv­ist, journ­al­ist, aspir­ing film­maker, adjunct pro­fess­or of social justice and civic engage­ment at Domin­ic­an Uni­ver­sity in River Forest, Illinois. I am based in Chica­go, Illinois.

About Zachary Draves

I am a violence prevention educator, activist, journalist, aspiring filmmaker, adjunct professor of social justice and civic engagement at Dominican University in River Forest, Illinois. I am based in Chicago, Illinois.